First, he's selling BOTH to surfers (of course the one is optional but checked by default).
Second, I've had a good relationship with him for some time and he knows what I do. For him to go around me like that is just not right to me. I wouldn't do it to him. Him doing that is like me putting up 100 sexkey sites and then promoting other free avs's in the content areas. His traffic from his links page would be going to the content areas and I'd be selling them to his competition. It's just not right
If it was someone I had barely dealt with and didn't know or care what I did who did that I really wouldn't care. But like I said, we've sent him a lot of traffic and sales and he knows what we do.