Woke up today (late again) checked my email and low and behold 17 emails regarding delievery failure.
Looked over all these emails and ALL of them were emails sending people to a site called 
http://www.megarotic.com
I said what the hell and went to the site (minus ref code lol) and guess what? "The Napster of porn" etc, etc, etc, etc, 
BUT, they have a mailer right at the bottom, fill out the email addy you want to send to, then pop in YOUR email and spam away.
Below are the ref links I got from the "failed emails"
http://www.megarotic.com/ct/?d=NAEM05GP
 
http://www.megarotic.com/vn/?d=02Z3ULN8
 
http://www.megarotic.com/ct/?d=U47LWVZ9  x3
 
http://www.megarotic.com/?d=PJ3DGC3J X3
 
http://www.megarotic.com/kr/?d=QBJ1QBQ3 X2
 
http://www.megarotic.com/ct/?d=794SF3TF
 
http://www.megarotic.com/pt/?d=6QRSDD0N 
 
http://www.megarotic.com/kr/?d=Y8BX3UDZ
 
http://www.megarotic.com/kr/?d=L8ZV1YQR
 
http://www.megarotic.com/pt/?d=JQUKNUA1 
 
http://www.megarotic.com/ct/?d=NAEM05GP
I sent a nice little email to Megarotic and forwarded it to my hosting co as well, but I highly doubt a company that is doing a "napster" site is going to care one bit that people are spamming using other people's email addys
Anyone know what else I can do to cover my ass?
-Loki-