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Originally Posted by Mediachick
I dont know; im just stuck between the idea that I know ppl can hardly decline a piece of cake but nobody call them freaks because of that.
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declining or not declining a piece of cake is not a daily event. EVERYONE here has the opportunity to eat cake everyday, but they dont (except for headless). - your analogy is more or less an expression of denial and trivializing and downplaying the issue - which is your concern about your own drinking.
i am not a specialist in addictive behaviors or anything.. but the moment you realized you have trouble saying "no", it seems to me you are saying two things: 1) I realize that there is a problem 2) I realize on some level that problem/behavior is not healthy
what other people do or do not do, has nothing to do with you as an individual and whether or not you have a problem.
