I also cook my own food. As a matter of fact, I'm about to make some
I do agree with what some of the GFY chicks said though: You should really discuss this with your girlfriends.
Personally, Im all in favor of setting a hard line when it comes to this kind of shit. You figure out what you absolutely want from her and you discuss it with her. Make sure that you're not bullshitting - Explain why you think it's fair. Come on, you guys are porn peddlers for gods sake, you pay the bills so if she doesn't like it show her the fucking door!
Halleluja