If you are gunna get in a relationship - find a woman that you agree with on things. I see SO many fucked up relationships because all the guy wants to do is fuck and all the girl wants to do is be happy with conversation/etc. I am in a perfect relationship myself, because we think alike.
Go take this test with her- Its pretty solid:
http://www.similarminds.com/match/
You seriously have to equal things out.
Not just assume what is right based on old time things. My mother lives by the idea that she will do all the cooking and cleaning - because my dad works 14-16 hours a day.
Good Luck
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