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Maybe it's me, but I think innocent online relationships - if the two parties are serious, tend to work in the sense that people don't expect much (I'm not referring to dating services but chat rooms other than dating/single themed chat rooms, message boards, etc...) People are there for another reason, you meet, find a common ground, some are honest and when you find those and you click then all the better. They don't know what labels you wear, what you drive or how much money you may have or not. There is less superficial bull.
Maybe I was just lucky - but 4 years since we met - 3 years married and still in love.
Personally, I'm the kind of person that detests being single and think that it's overrated. I think that given long enough time to heal, nobody wants to be alone. If you have other goals to settle before you want to get tied down, then clubs are fun in the meantime. Personally, I went to clubs for the loud pounding music, and hated being hit on - and yes, even if I'm a BBW, I was hit on more than the hot slim babe next to me - why? cuz I wasn't interested, I was the challenge - and the babes would say - WHAT THE FUCK do they see in HER?....heheheh Murphy's Law - Look and you won't find - Stop being available and they are doing the bunnyhop to get to you.
During the entire online relationship with my hubby - I never saw what he looked like until he got here. Because I used to maintain a picture site for a chat room, he had seen mine however.
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