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Originally Posted by LOL :D
personally i don't mind people swearing around my kids (if i had any).. why? because they pick it up and by the time they are 4 or 5 they grow out of that "OMG I CAN SAY FUCK, FUCK FUCK FUCK!!" stage... you don't believe me? i have a 7 year old nephew who was around swearing all the time, and he grew out of it, doesn't swear anymore, knows what it is, knows its not good, and is out of the stage where he wants to say it...
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Yea then there's the flip side. The parents cussing around the kid and the kid growing up saying that at school and getting in trouble. Then you have the lack of vocabulary because instead of using normal words he just swears. You might as well fuck in front him too right? I mean eventually he's going to find out what that is also right? This world is so fucked now. Back in the day (i'm talking 60-70 years ago) if a child swore he would damn near get his teeth knocked out. This is of course back when parents were real parents. That was also pre video game and internet era. Now people let the internet, the tv and video games raise their children. We wonder why the world is so fucked up now? We need not focus on just cussing but overall parenting. It is NOT ok to cuss in front of children. IT is NOT ok to smoke in front of or around children. Let the child make his own decision once he is of age. Raise him as a CHILD and expose him to ADULT things when he becomes old enough. Stop trying to force the child to accept bullshit to early. People get child and adult things mixed up. You may argue, he's going to hear it anyway!! Yea well when that time comes he'll hear it. What you do is talk to your child about things in life and let him know the real but dont force it down his throat. I have a 6 year old and of course he hears cuss words at school from the other kids. Do we cuss around him....no. Do we let him watch music videos....no. We monitor all of his television and occasional video games. You know what we've got so far? A well rounded child who uses manners and is respectable. All the kids like him. All the parents love him when he comes over for playdates and his teachers adore him. Imagine if he was a cussing kid and went over for a play date? Parents wouldn't want him around their child and we would look like terrible parents.
STOP BEING LAZY AND BE REAL PARENTS!!!!! IF YOU'RE TO SELFISH TO DO THAT THEN DONT HAVE KIDS!