Originally Posted by Katinka

I am relating more to real life situations. I have been attending fetish and bdsm events frequently for the last 6-7 years. Movies tend to stereotype dominant people.

If this is the first event thedoubles is attending it is very important that he feels comfortable if what he is wearing and that he isnt dressed in some stereotype outfit (unless it is his turnon off course!).

More experienced BDSM people can spot a newbie straight away. And if you are relaxed and in balance with yourself they tend to respect you more than if you have dressed up for the event, without coming to terms with yourself on what you are doing there.

I hope this made sence...