You can use RSS feeds for a blog but a lot of times that will only get you a supplemental listing in a search engine as you are reproducing exactly what someone else already did. One thing you can do with RSS is pull in the feeds then go back to your blogs admin and edit the posts making the text mostly original.
Find a blog you like, get a handle on what you want yours to do (posting style, layout of posts, keywords to target, etc.), and make a few of your own posts each day. You can get free themes for your blog at
http://www.alexking.org/software/wor...me_browser.php (but make sure they are compatible with your version of WP) or you can buy one designed for adult sites at
http://www.xlabor.com/themes/order.php - they will even do a custom one for you too.
Once you have it setup find other blogs in the same niche as yours and set up link trades. You will find some blogs even run a trade script and actively trade traffic. If you want to do this I'd say use AT3 from
arrow scripts becasue it is a very good script and FREE.
Good luck!!