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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
Do you think I havent weigh out every factor before we started this business..
We did very heavily , that is why I take stuff like this so damn seriously. I take every precaution to ensure my children are sheltered from my profession .
Very few people know what we do , and that is the way it has to be for us. We are young parents and becasue we are ,we're already scrutinized..
We are under the fucking microscope, imagine your reaction to seeing two " almost teen " parents with 3 kids.
The fact is that porn is so contraversial , that even the people who live by it , and work in it , shun it and thinks its taboo . So there will never be any aggrement to topics like this.
There is no profession that makes you a better or worse parent .. so long as its legal and you are putting food on the table.
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Honestly, I think you're being a bit naive here. Everybody knows how quickly rumors spread, and a site which gets good traffic will eventually most likely be seen by somebody that knows you. Or, someone who knows about it will talk about it to someone else. Most secrets do not last.
Now, you talk about sheltering your children. Does that mean you will never tell them about it? Because if that's the case, if they do find out, it will hit them pretty hard (especially since you tried to keep it a secret). On the other hand, if you do tell them, they will most likely talk about it with someone. Chances are that someone will be just as bad at keeping secrets as the rest of the world, especially when considering how teen friendships usually come and go at a pretty fast rate.
A profession is not what makes you a good or bad parent, however, the things concerning your children you take into consideration when choosing a profession is one of the things that make you a good or bad parent. For instance, someone who chooses a profession which costs a lot of time and thus can't spend enough time with their children could very well be considered a bad parent.
Maybe you have chosen a good way to deal with the situation, maybe not... only time will tell. I hope for your children's sake you have.