You got the set up all wrong. A wife doesn't say one day I'm not sucking your cock.
It's a slow process where the first year you get sucked in the car, shower, bed or chair 5-6 times per week.
Then she'll suck your cock for a year or two so she doesn't have to fuck you
except for the few times per month she gets horny.
Then after about 5 years you have to start paying a price for the blow jobs. Not pay in money but as a trade off.
After a couple of years of this she doesn't want to suck your dick for the trade off so she finds other ways to get what she wants from you.
This is the point where the relationship breaks or you figure out a way to make it work some other way.
You can +/- 5 years to this timeline
