Your pop-ups lost me...though I thought your site looked pretty good otherwise. (If I was a customer, I would have signed up...unless I was sent to popup hell first!

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I've seen sites that send their surfers to 'pop-up hell' and I've seen sites that only throw up 2-3 windows at most.
(I've joined sites that kept that sh** to a minimum)
The sites that I've joined in the past, have limited their circlejerking to a minimum.
I realize that 'pop-ups' sell, etc, etc.... but there comes a time when they're not needed. The more pop-ups you create, the more you make your customer aware that if they're going to look for porn, they're going to need to purchase software that stops the popups from happening..hey..this would be a good product to cross sell!
Oh..I'd love to be your boyfriend for one night..you got a pretty fly body! Keep up the good work and forget what anyone else says...
Peace!
Tek