As I told Jay when we spoke, Tampa has my vote. We are 5 hours by car from Miami, and it is soooo different than Miami it is hard to even make a comparision besides the fact that they are both in Florida! Tampa has also shown it welcomes the adult industry, The Night Moves Awards are held here every year (
http://nmaea.com/index2.html).
There are plenty of hotels.....and tons to do! You have the beach, theme parks, Disney, Universal Studios and Islands of Adventure are about 1.5 hours away.....Busch Gardens & Adventure Island are in Tampa and the Hard Rock Casino is also about 5 minutes from the city center. There is also YBor city....basically a college like atmosphere with tons of bars, a comedy club, Gameworks, Splitsville, etc.
Tampa also has 2 International Airports to fly into that are very close together- allowing webmasters to shop around for pricing....
So obviously my vote goes to Tampa & as I had said, we will be more than happy to help out if you guy need it!
Take care
Kristi