Don't know what this is about so not trying to offend the other party or anything.
Nothing like a good woman to make the VOICE OF REASON talk to you loud and clear.

I think she will be heard by a few people reading the thread too. Don't waste your time argueing - if the guy is bigger and stronger so be it.
I always tell my kids that the moment they resort to using their hands, screaming, manipulating with tears or destructing - they've already lost the battle because they aren't using their brain to either get out of the situation or make their point.
