I'm just starting to get spidered on mine too.
Go over to Greenguy & Jim board. There is a subboard just for blog issues and link exchanging.
I started hitting everyone up and doing link exchanges and it has helped.
My women's erotica blog is a special case though. On the one hand, not everyone has a for women category ( a lot do thank goodness) and so they just shove mine in under "other" categories.
On the other hand, since women's erotica isn't as big of an area as say teens, if you have a women's site, you tend to get spidered quickly in that area.
I've gone from a few hundred hits a day to about 3,000 uniques and that's only been in the first month!
I've got hope!
Hey vanilla, when I launch my regular porn blog, we'll have to do link exchanges!
