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It's all about time. No one ever wants to hear that, but it's true. I recently ended a 12 year relationship. You have to try to keep your mind busy. Sometimes it is ok to reflect on things from the relationship, but be very wary of rewriting certain memories into something better than they were. Also, which goes along with what I just said, 'euphoric recall' (recalling only good memories) can be a bitch. Sometimes you will have to 'remind' yourself why it is over.
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