Originally Posted by Pleasurepays

you are an amazing person IMHO. you do things and behave in a way that most would consider extreme or at the least very "different". yet you have the wisdom to understand that its not something you need to justify, its not something you need to argue is normal and its not something you need to explain or make others believe is ok and you don't feel they shoulld have to accept it.

you have understood that everyone has their own opinions and views and they are what they are... and trying to change others opinions and views are not about some objective reality or "right or wrong" as much as it is about self validation and affirmation. a healthy person just has no need for that. BoyAlley does. he is angry, unsure of himself and feels threatened at ever turn. it's understandable to an extent. he hurts and attacking makes him feel better and more "right" but in the end, only hurts himself and will deprive him of ever knowing and understanding true peace.