Oh boy, Chris, you opened a can of worms. Yes of course we all have helped out people that we thought were our friends and especially particular ones that we go out of our way to do extra things for. I have many stab wounds in my back and I bet we can go out drinking for a week and not finish going over them all.
Some stab wounds are very deep but I have found that the people that inflicted them have done so and gone on their merry way without a second thought and my dwelling on this is actually causing me more harm than it is to them. I guess this is what it means to let things go eh?