well, here:
check out
http://www.exstasyglass.com/
check the far right side, see where it grouped all the link together? there is supposed to be categories there
scroll to the bottom of the far right sidebar, I have added the
<?php get_links_list(); ?> code there just for kicks to show people what it is doing when I add that....it is adding that little page icon to the left of "Top Friends" and fucking up the formatting