Ok the problems have been solved for the time being. I just got this mail from the hosting company:
"The overload was caused by huge amount of scripts of a few accounts which were eating up available RAM and also by backup process at a certain time. The account causing has been removed and there's currently no overloading on your hardware node at the moment.
We apologise for the inconvenience this caused you."
Site is running up to speed again now like it should.
To bad this took so long and a big
to the script kiddies. For stuff like this you are forced to pay 150$ a month on a dedicated server.
Still going to get me a dedicated box when it gets traffic and makes
Thanks for the input.
GFX3