I've figured this thing out, this is the thing...women, when we need more, do more, because we think that's the way to get more from you...by doing for you what we want done for us. Problem is, guys don't take hints. At All. They think, hey, she's doing a lot for me, she must be very happy. So they relax. Causing the woman to go into a smothering frenzy, trying to get blood from a stone, which causes him to withdraw more. All humans have this incorrect programming that makes us subconsciously believe everyone else is like us. The golden rule is a good rule of thumb, but it doesn't work for male/female relationships.
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