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tASSy · 06-06-2006, 11:40 AM

this is an interesting question, and it's actually kind of nice to see someone asking it aloud...or in text. i currently live with my bisexual best friend and her lesbian girlfriend. they met where they work. living in the bay area i've never had an issue finding women interested in relationships with other women. it's when i go out to shows generally, or out with a large group of people - that some young girl is bound to come up to me and tell me that she'd like to make out with me or have girl sex with me, because - even though she's never done it - she thinks she'd like to try it with me. i used to call myself the "try before you buy" bisexual. i've had more girls who've had no lesbian experience come to me looking for one than i've had girls come up to me asking to start a monogamous lesbian relationship. so when these first-timers come around, i inevitably look to see who she's trying to impress, who's attention she wants to get, and what this little lesbian encounter is doing for her - i think these would be the social lesbians someone mentioned above. "i'm a lesbian when it benefits me, or get's a man's attention that i want." maybe i'm a little biased since my first lesbian relationship was with a gal who only did it to impress her boyfriend at the time - that i didn't know about AT ALL.

she'd sleep with me and then run off and tell him about it.)

if you're interested in a lesbian relationship because you *are* a lesbian or truly bisexual, chances are you will use your social network to meet other likeminded lesbians, or find a group of friends that are similarly motivated, and your social circle starts becoming larger and more full of that which you are looking for - potential lesbian romantic partners. like attracts like, and often lesbians have lesbian friends. it's just like any other social network you'd want to create for yourself.

06-06-2006, 11:40 AM
tASSy Spread The Pink! Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: pinktown! Posts: 8,229	this is an interesting question, and it's actually kind of nice to see someone asking it aloud...or in text. i currently live with my bisexual best friend and her lesbian girlfriend. they met where they work. living in the bay area i've never had an issue finding women interested in relationships with other women. it's when i go out to shows generally, or out with a large group of people - that some young girl is bound to come up to me and tell me that she'd like to make out with me or have girl sex with me, because - even though she's never done it - she thinks she'd like to try it with me. i used to call myself the "try before you buy" bisexual. i've had more girls who've had no lesbian experience come to me looking for one than i've had girls come up to me asking to start a monogamous lesbian relationship. so when these first-timers come around, i inevitably look to see who she's trying to impress, who's attention she wants to get, and what this little lesbian encounter is doing for her - i think these would be the social lesbians someone mentioned above. "i'm a lesbian when it benefits me, or get's a man's attention that i want." maybe i'm a little biased since my first lesbian relationship was with a gal who only did it to impress her boyfriend at the time - that i didn't know about AT ALL. she'd sleep with me and then run off and tell him about it.) if you're interested in a lesbian relationship because you are a lesbian or truly bisexual, chances are you will use your social network to meet other likeminded lesbians, or find a group of friends that are similarly motivated, and your social circle starts becoming larger and more full of that which you are looking for - potential lesbian romantic partners. like attracts like, and often lesbians have lesbian friends. it's just like any other social network you'd want to create for yourself. __________________ tassyPINK ICQ ~ 318097066 *