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Originally Posted by Latinamistress
I had trouble with this a few years ago.. when I started out in BDSM... as you can see by my user name I opted for the domme role... I found switching from domme to sub... was losing me the respect of my regulars as a domme. Its a difficult one.. I found I was getting mails from submissive guys asking me 'If you're a domme why do you have pics of you tied to the bed and ball gagged'  Covering a number of other fetishes should be smooth enough , but as far as bdsm goes, I would stick to either submissive or dominatrix..... well that's my contribution, hope it helps  good luck xx |
That IS true; when I was doing webcam, if a client would ask me, are you sub or domme? It was always delicate to answer... If you say you're a 'switch' they dont buy it, unless they are there to 'try out' new stuff... spanking yourself a little dont exactly mean you are big time into submission. And most guys seem to see domme-sub games very seriously. It doesnt suprize me that there is a big market for that. I guess I would fit more in the domme category but since im not gonna specialize as a professional mistress and sell the site's name around that, it should be fine...
Thanks !