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Originally Posted by Cristie
i have no arguements. Just feel sad. 
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Yes, I understand to some people their child is the center of their universe and that they love their children more than anything. I respect that very much. But not everyone wants to have a child or be a mother! That's the great thing about living in America, it's a free country and people have the right to make their own choices! (This also plays in with the gays, I could care less about what they do.)
I don't understand why it's "sad" if someone doesn't want a child. Not everyone is maternal. Maybe some people want to concentrate more on career, some people want to travel their whole life, some people don't want to devote their life and existence to a child? Why is this sad? Some people would rather do other things... That's why we have something called birth control.
That's GREAT if it's your joy in life is to raise your child (I mean that), but it just isn't MINE. Everyone is different.