Reading through this thread I'm glad that I'm still good friends with my ex and we've never had to get the courts or child support agency involved! He pays me no alimony or child support but if I need something I know he'll happily let me have the money for it (luckily this isn't often). He see's our son several times a week and has him stay over Saturday night, in fact he see's him more now than when we were together. When I became pregnant it was with the knowledge that if anything happened to the childs father I could support myself in some way while still bringing up my son myself and not sending him off to day care or a child minder.
My ex will be here in an hour or so to take me grocery shopping and in return for him driving me to the city I'll buy him lunch!
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