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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
HAHAHAHAHA and girlfriends never tell guys what they can and can't do? give me a fucking break dude. women would walk all over you. enjoy it.
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My GF wouldn't dare. I'd look at her with enquiring eyes that suggested "excuse me?", and the whole thing would be over.
Look, I have what's known as a mature relationship with my chick. We trust each other. If she wants to go off fucking other men, then that's completely fine with me - it simply signifies that the relationship is over anyway. She wouldn't WANT to fuck other men if she was happy! Why is that so difficult to understand? She sets her OWN boundaries of appropriate behaviour, exactly the same as I do. Honestly, the idea of having to allow or disallow a partner to engage in an act strikes me as a last-ditched effort to desperately hold together the remaining tattered threads of a relationship.
Furthermore, what is with the complete lack of respect for a woman's ability to think for herself I'm seeing in this thread? "As soon as she has a drink she'll be sucking cocks like a $2 whore" seems to be the common consensus. Are you serious? It never crossed any of your minds that a woman is capable of conscious thought? That they're capable of assessing the crude attempts at seduction by drunk gentlemen at a party and saying "hmm... no, I love my partner and I enjoy my relationship. I shall not kneel down and chug poles this evening". Do you really believe that concept, no matter how much liquor is applied, is *impossible* for a woman to maintain? I'm just shocked. You talk about her "respecting" you, yet you have so little respect for her that you consider her little more than a dog to be chained up in the backyard - don't want it running away, after all!
You know how I keep my GF from leaving? By having her trust and respect. She loves the shit out of me. She wouldn't fuck around because she knows I'd dump her in a second, and she doesn't want that to happen. Relationships aren't about CONTROL, guys, jesus. That's just an awful concept. Why would you want to live your life worrying like that? You going to stop her going to the shopping centre next, incase someone tries to push up on her there? You so afraid she might end up stuffing dicks in her in the backseat of the SUV you paid for to cart the shopping around? You're only pushing her away with that disgusting, insecure jealousy. I know if I had a woman doing that shit to me, my first thought would be "well fuck that, if I'm going to get blamed for it, I might as well do it" - and that's exactly what's going to happen here.